This 'new' avoidance of the use of 'force'

Is the idea that we must simply 'let kids become what they are' just a way of silently submitting to the system of coercion that manipulates their desires outside of their conscious control?

I don't want to force them to do anything - Julia said to her half brother.

The freshly brewed coffee filled the kitchen with an aroma that was unavoidable to anybody within a 10 meter proximity.

You know how the system, this system of coercion works don't you? - James pipes up.

Oh sure but how exactly does that justify my need to use force on my kids - her expression loving, an image of her 5 and 10 year old written all over her face - I mean, they're just so innocent.. let's just let them become what they want to become.

Well, it's a wonderful pipe dream you have there Julia. But let me tell you how it really works. You want them to learn a musical instrument but they always phase out when you try and exhibit an extreme lack of attention. You say this is because this is their life path and this is what they want. - James starts - I'm calling bullshit!

Oh, really? Why? - Julia.

Because the way the system works is through repetition of certain behaviours and tendencies, through the use of coercion through the group-mind and the media, using what is 'popular' to give them what they think they desire - James explains - and then you go on thinking that this is their natural life path and this is what they want. But these desires have been planted in by the system of coercion. Kids are blank canvases and to an extent they have their own identity but it's much more complicated than that in today's world.

I'm listening - Julia.

There are rules to human behaviour and by utilizing them the system generates desired behaviour in humans involuntarily (the subtle use of force). The system uses this force on your children to induce them into desiring things that benefit the system. When you fail to set any sort of parameters by which to live a healthy life and enjoy things with good habits because of your whimsical inability to take control, the system takes control for you, and forces through coercion what your children end up wanting and desiring; firmly planting all their desires to be dependent on an abusive money system... thus perpetuating this abusive money system - James finishes.

I see what you are saying, I suppose I honestly don't want to take that sort of an active role in my children's education. - Julia

At least you can be honest about this. Then expect to raise submissive system drones and be prepared to be rejected by them later when they side with the system, when you try to tell them differently. - James

Oh shit, what do I do? - Julia, hopeless

Take control or be controlled.

What you intelligently coerce their awareness on now (force) will be what they focus on for the rest of their lives.

You can start by 'forcing' them to learn a system of focus to enhance their memory and give them the mental faculties most children miss when growing up.

Seriously consider how you learnt all the important habits and systems of organization when you were growing up. Was it because you wandered into a field of unlimited information and had it put in you out of sheer choice? No, some hard life experience forced it into you. Now reconsider your children's education.

I'm not saying get out the stick, I'm saying observe the situation intelligently and use what you know of the system to your advantage to give your kids the real headstart they need in order to survive and teach others to love one another, independent of an abusive money system.

What choice do you have?